What is The Lover’s Mindset?
The Lover’s Mindset Podcast: Unlocking the Secrets of Love and Fulfillment
Welcome to The Lover’s Mindset, the show that tells you the truth about love. If you are tired of being hurt by love, can’t find love, and are wondering what is love all about, then stay tuned. I’m Leo Bastien and today we’re talking about What is the lover’s mindset.
But first I would like to define who I mean by a lover. A lover is first and foremost you. Yes, the lover which is you. All of you who are listening right now and those who will be listening in their now. We are all lovers.
I am sure all of you listening have loved someone and felt love from another. But I think many of us are still confused by what truly love is and how to genuinely express it.
The mindset is hardly talked about when talking about love. We think about loving ourselves and being in a relationship with someone. In this episode, we will discuss what the mindset of a lover should be to express love by giving love and receiving love.
We will also look at what love is from a non-societal standpoint.
I believe that everything we think, do, say and the way we act and interact in a relationship all must start with a thought which comes from the mind.
You see, we have a very creative mind, and this mind can manifest things from conscious thoughts and unconscious thoughts.
I am sure we all at some point in our lives have thought about how it would feel to be in love with a particular someone and for someone to love us. By just thinking about being in love you will notice that those love thoughts made you feel good.
Whether we are expressing our love through sex, lovemaking, or by just being kind to someone, showing compassion and treating others kindly while being honest, truthful, authentic, and creative are just ways of expressing love.
Let us look at the definition of love by a metaphysical teacher called Ananda. Here is the quote from Ananda; “True love is never-ending. It does not refuse or inflict punishment, it does not withdraw or have temper tantrums, and it always emits the same high frequency of absolute, unconditionally caring and offering, of growing and creation.”
Now based on Ananda’s definition of love, it causes me to ask a few questions.
If that is what love is by this definition, does that mean many of us are now rethinking whether we ever truly loved or was our loving sometimish?
Let me know what you think in the comments.
If we must love another by Ananda’s definition, then I feel and know the world will be a better place and more loving place. The divorce percentages would be very, very low.
• If so, why aren’t we loving from a lover’s mindset?
• Is it because we were not taught the truth about where love comes from and how to express it?
• Why is it that so many are searching for what they have been born with or is what and who they are?
• Is love in the heart or in the mind, or maybe both places?
• If everything comes from the mind, then is the heart part of the mind?
These are some of my questions and maybe you, my listeners, are asking the same questions.
The Lover’s Mindset I believe is a way or creative expression of what, and who you are. I believe that Love is an expression of Self. Many of us are searching for this thing that seems elusive, and we all want to feel it, taste it, be it, and just give it.
Is there something we are missing? More questions!
If true love is never-ending, then to me it means that love is so vast that it is everything. That love has no end. Seems like there are many levels to love. Is love consciousness?
Love never refuses or inflicts punishment. The principle of giving resonates but is there a when not to give? But it says never refuses. I think that is where the confusion comes in – because our ego tells us there is a limit and to deprive others but, in our heart, Soul, and mind, we feel that refusal and punishment are not love and don’t feel good.
“It does not withdraw and have temper tantrums.” I think this also falls under punishment, because very often in a relationship we deprive the other of our love if we are mad at them or feel hurt by them. We get angry, we fight and sometimes it gets so bad that the relationship is broken.
Okay, this statement has a lot of weight. Is it saying that if we are coming from love and are truly loving then no matter what happens in the relationship, we should not get angry or have a temper tantrum? Hmmmm! Think about that.
“It always emits the same high frequency of absolute, unconditionally caring and offering, of growing and creation.” Now this is where I feel we must be consistent, being in a state of constant joy, to be grateful, forgiving, growing, and being creative comes into play. Don’t forget to always care for each other no matter what happens and what is happening now.
To create is our birthright. We are creators. To express love is also our birthright. We are love personified. To always care for self and others is natural to us but we were taught to pay that compliment only when someone is being good to us. We are naturally compassionate beings.
As a result of being more expressive and creating from love, we grow into being more loving and live happier lives. Jesus figured it out. And we need to emulate this way of being so we can have peace in our hearts, minds, and on this earth.
I hope you enjoyed this episode. Let me know what you think by subscribing, and commenting, and please share it with your friends and families. Remember, everything you do from now on, do it with the lover’s mindset. Talk to you next week. Be Peaceful, show compassion, love always, and be creative. Thanks for tuning in to the Lover’s Mindset. Namaste.
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